Love You, Love You Not This book looks at relationship OCD (rOCD) and at my recovery journey through rOCD. Relationship OCD is a poorly known condition and affects many relationships. Many good relationships end because of rOCD. If you constantly question if your relationship or partner is the right one and this affects your thinking and feeling you might suffer from rOCD. In this book, I talk what rOCD is, what love is in the context of rOCD and what we can do to get better.